Teenager's Problems

Hey, guys.

Today I'd like to talk a little bit about teenager's thougts, especifically what they think is wrong or disgraceful in their lifes.

At the final phase of high school, many teens start to think about what they are going to do next and to plan their adulthood. Consequently, they start to think they already got what it takes to live an adult life. That line of thought brings a lot of new things they start to do in their routine, and when the routine is broken, parrents get in the way.

And that, my friend, creates a tense situation between the parent's authority and their kid's mind.

You see, everyone thinks that whatever they think is right, just because. Especially teenagers, who think they know what they are doing, who think that everything is possible and simple, when, actually, they don't have the slight idea of what the real deal looks like. Parents always have the upper hand on the arguments. "I already had your age, I know what I'm saying." "You still have a lot to learn." "You kids think you know it all, pff." 

Let's admit it...97% of the time, they're right. Deep down, they want our own good, they want to evade the bad situations that they probably experienced. They just want to keep us on the right path.

But teenagers don't see things that way. Their minds don't let them realize that caring. At the end of the day, mom and dad are only the persons that tell them to wash the dishes, take out the trash, walk the dog, study, etc; ignoring that they are their progenitors, the ones that gave you life and the ones that they should be most close with. This only feeds negative thoughts, like thinking the parents are too overprotective (wich in some cases is true), consequently also feeding the desire of leaving the house and taking care of themselves, because as already said, they think this is simple. 

I think that there must exist some mutual respect, a product of daily chit-chatting. This way, parents and kids get to know, in a friendly way, what each other think about life, responsibilities, dreams, problems, etc., so that way, together they can work to make everything go well for everyone.

Well, what am I saying? I'm just a teenager. Perhaps I'm just writing this to convince myself about the things that my parents should tell me in a good way...or nah.